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#541 Teaching Sexuality: Pitfalls, Purity Culture, and the Best Path Forward

#541 Teaching Sexuality: Pitfalls, Purity Culture, and the Best Path Forward

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#541 Teaching Sexuality: Pitfalls, Purity Culture, and the Best Path Forward

#541 Teaching Sexuality: Pitfalls, Purity Culture, and the Best Path Forward

#540 A Pastoral Perspective on Supporting Those with Gender Dysphoria

#540 A Pastoral Perspective on Supporting Those with Gender Dysphoria

#539 The Impact Of Shame And How To Overcome It

#539 The Impact Of Shame And How To Overcome It

#538 How I Rebuilt Faith In God After Church Abuse

#538 How I Rebuilt Faith In God After Church Abuse

#537 Can You Be a Christian Feminist?

#537 Can You Be a Christian Feminist?

#248 Gay Girl, Good God: Jackie Hill Perry’s Story

#248 Gay Girl, Good God: Jackie Hill Perry’s Story

#536 How To Help Your Kids Avoid Identity Traps

#536 How To Help Your Kids Avoid Identity Traps

#297: Finding Freedom in the Midst of Brokenness

#297: Finding Freedom in the Midst of Brokenness

#535 What Men Weren’t Taught About Sex

#535 What Men Weren’t Taught About Sex

#534 Four Surprising Things Killing Your Wife’s Sex Drive

#534 Four Surprising Things Killing Your Wife’s Sex Drive

#533 Why It Feels Impossible To Beat Your Sin

#533 Why It Feels Impossible To Beat Your Sin

#532 How the Church Can Help Stop Domestic Abuse

#532 How the Church Can Help Stop Domestic Abuse

#531 The Basics of Talking to Kids About Sex

#531 The Basics of Talking to Kids About Sex

#530 Sexuality and Smartphones: How to Help Teens Thrive

#530 Sexuality and Smartphones: How to Help Teens Thrive

#529 Modern Dating: How To Do It Well

#529 Modern Dating: How To Do It Well

#528 The 3 Superpowers Your Sex Life is Missing

#528 The 3 Superpowers Your Sex Life is Missing

#228: Intimacy After Infidelity

#228: Intimacy After Infidelity

#527 Why Friendship, not Romance, is the Greatest Love of All

#527 Why Friendship, not Romance, is the Greatest Love of All

#526 How God Heals Us From Past Abuse and Trauma

#526 How God Heals Us From Past Abuse and Trauma

#525 Churches and Porn: What isn’t Working and How to Change it

#525 Churches and Porn: What isn’t Working and How to Change it

#524 Her Freedom Journey: A Powerful New Book Helping Women Overcome Porn And Sexual Shame

#524 Her Freedom Journey: A Powerful New Book Helping Women Overcome Porn And Sexual Shame

#523 How Past Family Patterns Impact the Way You Love Today

#523 How Past Family Patterns Impact the Way You Love Today

#522 The Paradox of Hope and Brokenness: Jesus, Depression and SSA

#522 The Paradox of Hope and Brokenness: Jesus, Depression and SSA

#521 How to Know if Your Marriage can Recover from Betrayal

#521 How to Know if Your Marriage can Recover from Betrayal

#520 Sex, Cancel Culture and the Church: How to Pursue Unity When we Disagree

#520 Sex, Cancel Culture and the Church: How to Pursue Unity When we Disagree

#519 Why we Need to be Better at Caring for Divorced People in the Church

#519 Why we Need to be Better at Caring for Divorced People in the Church

#518 Single Sexuality and the Unique Challenges of Widowhood

#518 Single Sexuality and the Unique Challenges of Widowhood

#517 How to Beat Loneliness and Cultivate Deeper Friendships

#517 How to Beat Loneliness and Cultivate Deeper Friendships

#516 Don’t Skip Foreplay! (and Other Advice from a Christian Sex Therapist)

#516 Don’t Skip Foreplay! (and Other Advice from a Christian Sex Therapist)

#515 Is Attraction Sinful? Unpacking Attachment, Safety, Love and Desire

#515 Is Attraction Sinful? Unpacking Attachment, Safety, Love and Desire

#514 How Deconstruction and Divorce Rocked a Young Couple’s Life

#514 How Deconstruction and Divorce Rocked a Young Couple’s Life

#513 A Child Psychiatrist On The Truth About Transgender Activism

#513 A Child Psychiatrist On The Truth About Transgender Activism

#512 Friends Who Hurt Us: How To Recognize Unlikely Sources Of Abuse

#512 Friends Who Hurt Us: How To Recognize Unlikely Sources Of Abuse

#511 Why You Need to Laugh More

#511 Why You Need to Laugh More

#510 Influencer Anh Lin on Overcoming Trauma and Living a Beautiful Life

#510 Influencer Anh Lin on Overcoming Trauma and Living a Beautiful Life

#509 Workaholism And Infidelity Almost Led To Divorce, But A Miracle Saved Their Marriage

#509 Workaholism And Infidelity Almost Led To Divorce, But A Miracle Saved Their Marriage

#508 What Does Healthy Masculinity Actually Look Like?

#508 What Does Healthy Masculinity Actually Look Like?

#507 What You Need To Know About The Gender Conversation

#507 What You Need To Know About The Gender Conversation

#506 How To Make Sense Of Grief And God’s Goodness

#506 How To Make Sense Of Grief And God’s Goodness

#505 What Does it Look Like to Struggle with Sexual Sin and Still Love Jesus?

#505 What Does it Look Like to Struggle with Sexual Sin and Still Love Jesus?

#504 Painful Intercourse, Fake Orgasms, And Aging Sex: Answers To The Most Popular Sex Questions

#504 Painful Intercourse, Fake Orgasms, And Aging Sex: Answers To The Most Popular Sex Questions

#503 Lies, Pornography and Sex Addiction Almost Ended Their Marriage, Now They Help Others Find Hope

#503 Lies, Pornography and Sex Addiction Almost Ended Their Marriage, Now They Help Others Find Hope

#502 How to Understand and Overcome the Challenges of Postpartum Sex

#502 How to Understand and Overcome the Challenges of Postpartum Sex

#501 Going Beyond a Superficial Faith – with guest Jackie Hill Perry

#501 Going Beyond a Superficial Faith – with guest Jackie Hill Perry

#500 Sex, Faith and Family: Conversations Every Couple Should Have Pre-Marriage

#500 Sex, Faith and Family: Conversations Every Couple Should Have Pre-Marriage

#499 How Vulnerability Can Help You Heal From Sexual Trauma

#499 How Vulnerability Can Help You Heal From Sexual Trauma

#498 The Surprising Thing You’re Missing In Your Healing Journey

#498 The Surprising Thing You’re Missing In Your Healing Journey

#497 Trying to Heal? Here’s Why Knowing Your Story is Essential

#497 Trying to Heal? Here’s Why Knowing Your Story is Essential

#496 Seeking Truth on Singleness, Married Sexuality and LGBTQ+ Issues – A 2023 Recap

#496 Seeking Truth on Singleness, Married Sexuality and LGBTQ+ Issues – A 2023 Recap

#495 Why Narratives About Sex Matter

#495 Why Narratives About Sex Matter

#494 Purity Culture, Men and Sexual Entitlement

#494 Purity Culture, Men and Sexual Entitlement

#493 How the Bible’s Teachings About Sex Reveal God’s Goodness

#493 How the Bible’s Teachings About Sex Reveal God’s Goodness

#492 How Human Trafficking Causes Us to Rethink What We Believe About God

#492 How Human Trafficking Causes Us to Rethink What We Believe About God

#491 Why Debates About Women’s Roles Might be Missing the Point

#491 Why Debates About Women’s Roles Might be Missing the Point

#490 How Do You Go From Being Stuck in Bondage to True Freedom?

#490 How Do You Go From Being Stuck in Bondage to True Freedom?

#489 Thinking About Divorce? You Might Want to Listen to This First

#489 Thinking About Divorce? You Might Want to Listen to This First

#363: Why Are Christians Afraid Of the LGBT+ Conversation?

#363: Why Are Christians Afraid Of the LGBT+ Conversation?

#488 What Does the Bible Really Say About Same-Sex Marriage?

#488 What Does the Bible Really Say About Same-Sex Marriage?

#257: How Trauma Affects Our Bodies & Souls

#257: How Trauma Affects Our Bodies & Souls

#487 How to Cling to God When Your World is Falling Apart

#487 How to Cling to God When Your World is Falling Apart

#316: Sorry Mom & Dad, the “Sex Talk” Doesn’t Work

#316: Sorry Mom & Dad, the “Sex Talk” Doesn’t Work

#486 Teaching Sexual Discipleship: How to Walk in Truth and Love with LGBTQ+ Kids

#486 Teaching Sexual Discipleship: How to Walk in Truth and Love with LGBTQ+ Kids

#386: What’s the Secret To Getting the Marriage & Intimacy You Want? Go Vertical

#386: What’s the Secret To Getting the Marriage & Intimacy You Want? Go Vertical

#485 Your Marriage Won’t Survive Without Grace: Why Marriages Built on Performance Fall Apart

#485 Your Marriage Won’t Survive Without Grace: Why Marriages Built on Performance Fall Apart

#454 Mismatched in Sexual Desire? You May Be Closer Than You Think

#454 Mismatched in Sexual Desire? You May Be Closer Than You Think

#484 Duty Sex, Feeling Objectified, and Other Reasons Women Don’t Enjoy Sex in Marriage

#484 Duty Sex, Feeling Objectified, and Other Reasons Women Don’t Enjoy Sex in Marriage

#388 Single & Sexually Whole

#388 Single & Sexually Whole

#483 Why You Need a New Theology of Singleness, Even if You’re Married

#483 Why You Need a New Theology of Singleness, Even if You’re Married

#211: Understanding Pornography Addiction

#211: Understanding Pornography Addiction

#482 Trying to Overcome a Sexual Addiction? Here’s Why You Can’t Do It Alone

#482 Trying to Overcome a Sexual Addiction? Here’s Why You Can’t Do It Alone

#481 Learning, Leading, and Growing: A Reflection on 10 Years of Java with Juli

#481 Learning, Leading, and Growing: A Reflection on 10 Years of Java with Juli

#480 How to Heal and Rebuild Trust and Sexual Intimacy After An Affair

#480 How to Heal and Rebuild Trust and Sexual Intimacy After An Affair

#479 More Than Just Behavior: Why Your Struggles With Sexual Sin Run Deeper Than You Think

#479 More Than Just Behavior: Why Your Struggles With Sexual Sin Run Deeper Than You Think

#478 How To Love And Lead Your Adult Kids With Jim Burns

#478 How To Love And Lead Your Adult Kids With Jim Burns

#477 In-Laws or Outlaws? How to Handle The Challenge of Setting Boundaries with In-Laws

#477 In-Laws or Outlaws? How to Handle The Challenge of Setting Boundaries with In-Laws

#476 When God Ran: How God’s Love Found a Woman Lost In Shame

#476 When God Ran: How God’s Love Found a Woman Lost In Shame

#475 Why Empathy, Inner Healing, and Teamwork Are at the Heart of Building Intimacy

#475 Why Empathy, Inner Healing, and Teamwork Are at the Heart of Building Intimacy

#474 A Rebel’s Manifesto: How to Live Holy Different with Sean McDowell

#474 A Rebel’s Manifesto: How to Live Holy Different with Sean McDowell

#473 Repentance, Redemption, and Revolution: How to Accept the Invitation of Godly Sexuality

#473 Repentance, Redemption, and Revolution: How to Accept the Invitation of Godly Sexuality

#472 Embracing Grief: Why We Need to Connect Sadness, Gratitude, and Celebration

#472 Embracing Grief: Why We Need to Connect Sadness, Gratitude, and Celebration

#471 How to Understand, Celebrate, and Leverage Neurological Differences in Relationships

#471 How to Understand, Celebrate, and Leverage Neurological Differences in Relationships

#470 Why Did We Start Hating Men? The Toxic War on Masculinity with Nancy Pearcey

#470 Why Did We Start Hating Men? The Toxic War on Masculinity with Nancy Pearcey

#469 Porn, Rape Culture, and Why The Battle Against Sexual Assault Starts at Home

#469 Porn, Rape Culture, and Why The Battle Against Sexual Assault Starts at Home

#468 Teaching Your Kids How to Love Their Bodies with Francie Winslow

#468 Teaching Your Kids How to Love Their Bodies with Francie Winslow

#467 Yes, Your Marriage Is Worth Fighting For (Here’s How to Save It)

#467 Yes, Your Marriage Is Worth Fighting For (Here’s How to Save It)

#466 Enough is Enough: Recognizing and Combating Abusive Relationships

#466 Enough is Enough: Recognizing and Combating Abusive Relationships

#465 Love Dares: Using Playfulness to Build Sexual Intimacy

#465 Love Dares: Using Playfulness to Build Sexual Intimacy

#464 Why We Need to Remember The Dignity of Singleness

#464 Why We Need to Remember The Dignity of Singleness

#463 (Bonus) The Need for Grace in Church-Based Conversations About Sex and Gender

#463 (Bonus) The Need for Grace in Church-Based Conversations About Sex and Gender

#462 Beautiful Union: How Our Sexuality Reveals God’s Heart for Covenant Love

#462 Beautiful Union: How Our Sexuality Reveals God’s Heart for Covenant Love

#461 Pride, Lust, and Why We Do Things We Don’t Want To Do

#461 Pride, Lust, and Why We Do Things We Don’t Want To Do

#460 How To Have Mini and Many Conversations About Sexuality With Your Kids

#460 How To Have Mini and Many Conversations About Sexuality With Your Kids

#459 How Sexual Abuse Affects You (And Why God Is Still Trustworthy)

#459 How Sexual Abuse Affects You (And Why God Is Still Trustworthy)

#458 Why Women Are Leaving the Church (And How To Find Your Way Back)

#458 Why Women Are Leaving the Church (And How To Find Your Way Back)

#457 How To Build a Flourishing (not Flawless) Sex Life You’ll Both Love

#457 How To Build a Flourishing (not Flawless) Sex Life You’ll Both Love

#456 Overcoming Father Wounds: Trading My Pain for God’s Perfect Love

#456 Overcoming Father Wounds: Trading My Pain for God’s Perfect Love

#455 How God Changed My Heart (Even After I Changed My Gender) with Laura Smalts

#455 How God Changed My Heart (Even After I Changed My Gender) with Laura Smalts

#453 Teens Are Anxious, Sad and Lonely. Here’s How You Can Help

#453 Teens Are Anxious, Sad and Lonely. Here’s How You Can Help

#452 Porn Addiction in Marriage: How to Let God Redeem Your Story

#452 Porn Addiction in Marriage: How to Let God Redeem Your Story

#451 Porn Addiction and Women: Break the Silence, Bring the Hope

#451 Porn Addiction and Women: Break the Silence, Bring the Hope

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